There are few events more emotional than deciding that a divorce is your only option. You need to know what to expect and how to address what will be a life-altering scenario.
I have more than 9 years experience in the family law/matrimonial arena and in those years, I have complied quite a few tips for people considering divorce. But, here at what I consider to be the "Top 10" Tips you should know:
1. Your divorce lawyer is your key source of information...but he/she is not your therapist.
2. Be sure to copy all records and files you see in your home or business. Never assume that a document is unimportant.
3. Never destroy any records and files.
4. Do not involve your children in your dispute with your spouse. Your children will know that mommy and daddy are getting a divorce, so you don't need to involve them. Let your kids be kids.
5. Cooperate and communicate with your lawyer.
6. Do not confuse your attorney's advocacy on your behalf with animosity toward your spouse's attorney. You need your attorney to have good relations with the other side or else you will spend more in legal fees than might otherwise be the case.
7. Your attorney is charging you for his/her time so be sure to group your questions together or call only when necessary.
8. Let your children's schools and day care centers know who is and who is not allowed to pick up the children.
9. Know where your children's passports and other vital records are located.
10. Be sure to ask questions.
Nothing herein is designed to create an attorney-client relationship and is not intended to convey legal advice.
Ronald G. Lieberman practices in Haddonfield, New Jersey, exclusively in the area of matrimonial/family law. He has more than 9 years of experience and litigated all aspects such as custody, child support, alimony, equitable distribution, domestic violence, appeals, hearings, and trials. He can be reached at 856-428-8334. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Ronald_Lieberman |
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